Cathleen Quigley-Soderman

  • School of the Arts (1990)

Tags: Alma Mater, Arts, Culture

Clean & Sober Graduation

My graduation was an unforgettable moment: I sat amongst the thousands in a sea of light blue cap and gowns. I had completed my three-year M.F.A. degree in Directing at Columbia’s School of the Arts.

The miracle was that–as my fellow students popped champagne corks beneath their honorable graduation gowns, and as I looked up to see them flying into the crystal clear May 12th sky–I thought, “I am 90 days sober by the grace of God.”

Without my sobriety I would have never graduated.

I had spent 2 1/2 years partying, drinking, and drugging my brains out before I finally reached my bottom. Even the chairman of my department, Howard Stein, asked me to take a sabbatical and see a doctor. Instead, I found the twelve steps, and because of my Higher Power I got to sit amongst the smartest and the greatest people in the world on those great stone step of my Alma Mater, Columbia University.

Today I am 15 years clean and sober, and I can honestly say: it works, it really does.

Cathie Q.S.